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Showing posts with label Resolutions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Resolutions. Show all posts

Sunday, January 4, 2015

2015 Writers' Resolutions

cj Sez:  Here is an offering of Writer’s Resolutions for 2015. Pick and choose as you like, but I think they’re all do-able.

Anne Lamott, in her national best-seller how-to book Bird by Bird, Some Instructions on Writing and Life wrote:

"Thirty years ago my older brother, who was ten years old at the time, was trying to get a report on birds written that he'd had three months to write. It was due the next day. We were out at our family cabin in Bolinas, and he was at the kitchen table close to tears, surrounded by binder paper and pencils and unopened books on birds, immobilized by the hugeness of the task ahead. Then my father sat down beside him, put his arm around my brother's shoulder, and said, 'Bird by bird, buddy.  Just take it bird by bird.'"

That’s some of the best advice ever for writers . . . take it one word at a time, one paragraph at a time, one chapter at a time, until you’ve (surprise!) reached the end.

You won’t always feel like writing, not every day, and some days, what appears on the page will look like pure crap to you. The thing to remember is, you should expect that your first effort is ALWAYS a crappy draft. The goal is to write down the nuggets of your story idea. On blank paper or on a blank computer screen. Doesn’t make any difference if the spelling is correct, or the grammar, or the format. You can fix all that later.

So many people I know have an idea for a story. They read a book and say, “I could do that. If I had the time.”

If you really, really (notice there are two “really’s” here) want to write, You. Will. Make. Time. Aren’t a morning person? Write at night. Too pooped at night? Write before the rest of your family gets up. The important thing is to make a habit of writing: same time every day. If you’re also working a full-time job, no problem. I always found that when I was super busy at work, I was more efficient with my time at home.

Do your story research one day and write the next. If you try to integrate the two, you’ll surely find yourself down an interesting but time-consuming rabbit hole and having not written one word of your novel. That also means No Facebook, No eMail, and No Twitter. They have No Place in your writing time. They’re for personal time or marketing your book.

Writing a novel takes dedication and discipline. Think of it as a commitment, a job (or another job) that you go to every day. Set up a place and establish an hour or two or more for just for that purpose. Let your family know you’re not to be interrupted when you’re at work . . . just as it would be if you worked at a job away from the house. Set a realistic daily goal for your writing. Maybe it’s five pages or a chapter or “x” number of words a day. Whatever it is that you know you can accomplish if you stay disciplined. The result will be that you can also set a deadline for completion, that exciting ultimate goal: The End. And the novel won’t linger on for years and years (as I have been known to do).

Just to make sure your writing is not all work and no play, when you achieve one of your interim goals, reward yourself. Take a break. Take a walk in the park, a trip to a coffee shop, a visit to a library or book store. Take time to feel good about those little successes and re-energize.
 
Okay, enough preaching to the choir, but let me know what you think. You-all guys keep on keeping on in this new year of 2015, and I’ll try to do the same.

cj

Note: The photo is by Jeff D. Johnston. What looks like a snow-covered shoreline is really the pale, warm sands of Dauphin Island, AL.

Friday, June 6, 2014

Summer Chillaxin: Friday Forum

In May, we talked about character development. Now, we switch gears and look at summer, one of my favorite times of the year.

January 1st of every year, we scramble to write down our list of resolutions, our goals to be better and do more every year. The top ten resolutions (according to Statistic Brain) are:

1.     Lose weight
2.     Get organized
3.     Spend less, Save more
4.     Enjoy life to the fullest
5.     Stay fit and healthy
6.     Learn something exciting
7.     Quit smoking
8.     Help others achieve their dreams
9.     Fall in love
10.  Spend more time with family

Based on my pitiful track record, I found it shocking that 47% of people make it through the first six months still working on their resolutions. While I wouldn’t expect writing goals on a cumulative list for all people and the majority of people aren’t freelancers like me, none the less, it surprised me that almost half of the list is for self-improvement. Are we so morose about our personal value? Obviously, the answer is yes.

My guess is if you added the personal value writers have for the quality of their work, the number would leap to above 80%. Somehow, we got an extra gene, what I call the Q gene that tells us to Quit fooling ourselves and spend more time with the family, start an exercise program, and sit back and enjoy life to the fullest.

Forget it. A writer has to write, whether it is blog posts, magazine articles, short stories, music lyrics, screenplays, novels, non-fiction. We HAVE TO DO THIS!

Summer is the best shot we have for chillaxin. (for those without a teen in the house: Chillin' and relaxin' at the same time). You may or may not have an official vacation where one actually leaves home for the beach, the mountains, the etcetera, a place where you find a corner to dream, to imagine, to put pen to paper. But summer is the time when we take a collective breath, the kids can wear whatever they want to, there is no homework or band or football practice, no carpools except to drop them off at a camp (see Barefoot Writing Academy for writing camps – shameless plug).

While everyone is smiling more, I made a list of new summer resolutions for writers. These are a lot more fun that the top ten list above. Take a deep, cleansing breath and resolve to try a few. Your writing will appreciate it.

1.       Lie in your backyard and stare at the stars or the clouds rolling by: get kids who claim to be bored involved and find the shapes in the sky. Great opportunity to create a story and tap their fertile imaginations.

2.       Sort through your pictures (the ones you’ve been planning to scrapbook for the pastten years) and write a story about a beloved person you see in one. Oral storytelling with the kids is another fun activity, then write it down. Helps build character profiles for your next writing project.

3.       Let your mind wander as you pull weeds, plant and prune flowers, pick fresh veggies, mow the lawn. If a new plot idea rolls in as your mind roams aimlessly, run inside and write down the basic idea before you lose it.

4.       At our house, we summer clean rather than spring clean, because it’s so hot and humid in Mobile summers, it’s hard to breathe outside. Cleaning and tossing and organizing free the mind and the soul. Note: When Margaret Thatcher needed time to rest and think, she painted – not pictures but walls. She found it very cathartic and helped her solve problems of state.

5.       Have a no i day and unplug everything that rings or talks back: cell phones, pads, TV, radios, pc. Shocking for an hour or so and then you get in the rhythm and may find, you want more than one day alone with your thoughts. We learned this important lesson after a hurricane and everything was off.

6.       Have play dates with your family and friends – go on picnics, go roller skating, go bowling, go to a water park. Do not stay home!

7.       Have a DIY day with family and friends – make candles, paint on tee shirts, paint on the sidewalk (buy washable paints for this), make summer jewelry, birdhouses, or sand art. Have creative fun. Take loads of pictures and use those pictures to open your mind to the possibilities in a story.

8.       Have a silent retreat with no talking if your family is old enough. This can be done at home, a park, or a museum, which is a great place to wander and absorb the colors and ideas. Take a pad and pen along for everyone to write down ideas. After the day of silence, share them. Can’t do a whole day, dedicate a block of time in a day.

9.       Dance like no one is looking. Great exercise and loads of fun for everyone. I taught my granddaughter the words forward and backward, left and right dancing to the tunes of Donna Summer. She was only three and still remembers it. Need inspiration check this out:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6Sxv-sUYtM&feature=kp

10.    Throw a game night, all of which are creative games: Taboo, Scrabble, Boggle, Pictionary.

Keep a chillaxin journal and record notes after every event – what you felt, saw, heard, smelled, tasted, touched, learned about your family and friends, and, of course, any story insights that pop up along the way.

As writers, we need these times to let go, time to let our subconscious reveal itself with plot and character developments. We need time to enjoy our lives alone and with those we care about. We need to clear the cobwebs and sweep out the dust bunnies that are clogging our vents of creativity.

Before you ask, I purposely did not add reading to my list, because I know you will do that alone and with your kids no matter what the season.

Sorry, no pictures, Blogger is on strike against my pictures for some unknown reason today.

Mahala

 

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Happy New Year Y'all Guys





I can’t claim credit for anything except copying this jpeg off of my Facebook page (hope that’s not illegal).

I figure it’s the one resolution this writer hopes to keep for 2014. It definitely fits the S.M.A.R.T. way of making resolutions (which also came from an online site).  S.M.A.R.T. is defined as . . .
Specific. Measurable. Attainable. Relevant. Time-Specific.  Yep, I like it.

Wishing you and yours a happy and healthy 2014. 

You-all guys keep on keeping on, and I’ll try to do the same.

cj

P.S. Mahala is so much more organized than I am. Her resolutions (see below) are very, very SMART. 

Thursday, December 31, 2009

Resolutions

It's official. 2009 is closing out eight hours from now. It's so nice to look back over the year and see my productivity with another book edited, manuscripts edited, several publications, some contest wins and honorable mentions, and plenty of enthusiasm left for the novel I'm about to begin editing in earnest and the new book I'm researching.

My family has had its share of hard times in 2009 with the swine flu paying a visit, and my daughter getting laid off without any notice after three years with the company and an exemplary work record. (She wasn't the only one as the company downsizes to close.) We faced the holidays on a wish and a promise. With the help of many good friends we sailed right through. My daughter used these months to work towards finishing her business degree and only has two classes left, while she researched local businesses and sought employment. We tend to be a productive family as you can tell. Not to be outdone, my granddaughter gave up her allowance and fast food with a smile; although, we found out how addicted we all are to McDonald's fries.

We face the new year full of optimism - house cleaned, Christmas wrapped up and being stored as I write this, and resolutions in hand. On the top of my list is to keep you posted weekly on my progress and the process I'm using to do my rewrite. It occurred to me recently that no matter what blog we routinely follow, what writing publication we pour through monthly, or how many writers you hear speak, there is an everlasting list of questions about the writing and editing processes. We all want to hear how someone has done or is doing it in the hopes that a drop of brilliance will spring from the golden apple and make our jobs easier. So, for those of you who are voyeurs at heart, you will get a blow by blow on what's working and what's not as I tackle my re-write.

May you have a safe New Year's Eve and a productive new year! Mahala